common has this song "go" that illustrates the male mind through his lyrics. i can't speak on behalf of all males - whether single or coupled, but i do know that most dudes have the same quick, instantaneous, fantasies that common speaks of.

" She was a bad (uh), the type at the club n*ggaz would grab her
Fantasized when I had her, in the bathroom sweatin' with her ass up
The body of a dancer, we had chemistry cuz she was a Cancer
Thought forever it would last for, but forever move faster, so I had to (Go)
Still I gotta pause when I think about her in dem draws
And a ooh baby she liked it raw and like rain when she came it poured
And like a car that I can't afford I would want it then want some more
The positions our frames explored let me know she was secure, back for more I wanna
Go"
- common

taking you back 2 years ago...
y'all remember that bi-racial girl i had a thing for?
the "brooke burke" girl?
the young one?

the same one that i saw at the gym during my membership there.
the one i thought was half chinese and half caucasian of some sort?
remember that one?
the same one we saw at the vietnamese restaurant by jp's house.
the same one that when we were driving and y'all asked me how she looks i said "brook burkeish" and then by shear coincidence, she just happened to be in the car next to us at the next intersection?

[she's like the great gazoo or polkaroo.]

y'all remember that?
y'all remember her?

well it turns out she's not half chinese, but rather half filipino.
and it turns out that she's a mere younger than we (22 years..not too young at all).
and it turns out that shes a friend of a friend of a friend (once of those third degree situations...friendster..not blackbelt).

well as stated above, i was snooping around and i found her on friendster.
and we both like the same books.
and i'd like to believe we have a lot more in common than we really do.
and i like to remember how our eyes locked on several occassions.
this i remember vividly.

when it comes to girls im like an elephant...i never forget.

then i realized she's [said with tight lips] 'in a relationship'.

oh well. she goes to the university of toronto.
there are others...but this was a lost moment.

and a man can fantasize can't he?
just make sure the rest of you go easy on the vaseline, that's all.

we would've been nice.